Trashy TV Recap? Not so much. We’re Taking Risks Today.
I know what you're thinking, What? No trashy TV recap today? Well my pretties, I could give you the run down on America's Got Talent (my favorites, Poplyfe didn't win, Landau Eugene Murphy Jr. did, whatever!), America's Next Top Model (I was over the moon excited for this cycle – all stars! But was so disappointed that they only brought back the girls I least liked the first time around. Meh.), and Project Runway (the bully Joshua won and Bert got to stay – again. WTF?), but really I'm finding that my recaps have made watching the shows not as fun. I have to take notes and pause the remote for quotes. No more hunkering down with a cup of tea and giggling like a school girl. Maybe I'll bring it back, but for today, I want to share with you what's got me all excited.
To celebrate, I've made my favorite tea drink. Moroccan Mint tea latte. It's so easy and super delish. Here's how you make it: brew up some Moroccan Mint tea, add some milk and hot cocoa powder and stir. That's it! I like to use Coffee Bean & Tea Leaf's Moroccan Mint because it's nice and mellow. Don't use peppermint. Trust me.
Now that's a darn fine latte if ever I had one. Know what else is darn fine? My new business cards! Here they are, what do you think?
Why am I so excited for business cards? Because, when I go to my conference next week, I can hand them out to everyone – and I mean everyone I meet. That, and they're pink and black, what's not to love? Hmmm, maybe I should put some bling on them. What do you think?
Wait? What's this about a conference, you say?
Every February for the past several years I've gone to the Southern California Writer's Conference here in San Diego. Usually, I go and see my friends, have a few drinks in the bar, attend workshops and listen to key note speakers, I might sit in on the agents and editors panels, but I always go as a silent author. Sure, everyone there knows I'm writing a fantasy novel, but I don't shop it around, I rarely make it to the late night rogue read and critiques, and god forbid I actually have an agent look at my work. Gasp!
Well, next weekend I'm attending the SCWC in Newport Beach. Not only am I stepping out of my San Diego comfort zone and heading north to a new location, I'm taking a risk with my writing.
This time I've submitted my work to three, count them THREE people for advance submission critiques. Two of them are agents (big time guys from NYC) and the third is an author and freelance editor. Wow! I've never let agents read my stuff before and I'm super nervous and excited.
What's an advance submission critique? It's pure gold to a writer. You submit 15-20 pages of your manuscript to the reader in advance of the conference, usually a good month early. That way, when you arrive at the conference, you can sit down with the reader and they'll tell you how much they love your work (a girl can dream!). Or, if there are issues with it, they'll gently give suggestions on making the work stronger. Sometimes you get a book deal out of ASCs, but what you really get is face-to-face advice from someone in the business. Like I said – gold.
If you're a writer and you've never been to a conference before, go! The SCWC is a fabulous place to start and I've heard wonderful things about Dallas as well. Now that my book is getting nearer to completion, I'm going to find some conferences that are fantasy friendly. Here's a tip – research your conference. You don't want to go and find out they only take romance when what you write is horror. That would be a bummer.
Earlier this week, the amazing and fabulous Piper Bayard posted about her seven year journey and gives great tips on writing and conferences. Check it out here. She's got me rethinking a few things about myself as a writer. In a good way.
So now do you understand the excitement over my new business cards? See at the top where it says, Wife, Mother, Writer? Well, now it's in print so it has to be true, right?
It's a little terrifying to put it out there like that, but as it says on the SCWC website, ‘A writer is a writer before, as well as after, publication'.
Do you call yourself a writer? Or just aspiring? Like Piper says, ‘aspiring my ass'. Have you fully committed to your career as a writer? I have and next weekend I'm putting my work out there to be judged. Whether the advance readers love it or hate it, at least I'll be richer for the experience of having two agents and an editor read my work.
Hi, my name is Tameri and I'm a writer.
Now it's your turn. What have you done that terrified you, but made you stronger afterward? Do you have a favorite conference you attend? What motivates you to move through your comfort zone and try something new?